So I have been on these forums for a little while, and have read countless posts about women's SO's watching/looking at porn. I have read the debates. My take has always been I don't really care much unless I'm having to go wothout for the most part. I always had a feeling my bf has watched a lot of porn because of the way he has sex. I could just tell. I have asked him about it before, and he said I watch it to check out new positions, but don't just sit around to get off to it. Well, we just moved in together this past week. And, yes, this morning I snooped. I really knew I shouldn't but I couldn't help myself. And on his laptop, shows he has been looking at porn for the last 3 nights while I'm in the bathtub in the same room. And right now, I am just wondering why? Is he not turned on by me and have to watch porn to get turned on before bed? Why now, that we just moved into together? Is there something he wants that I'm not doing? Or doing good enough? Has he not been honest with me? I want to ask, but don't want to have to fess to snooping, and if I ask about porn watching in general he will tell me the same bs he has been telling me. The other thing that bothered me was the personal ads he was looking at on C-list. All about threesomes. I don't want to jumop to any conclusions about that yet, unless he keeps looking. Could've been curiosity. All I know right now is, I think I will be a little more sympathetic to women when it comes to them being upset about their SO's watching porn. It really doesn't feel very good.